In this present time where most people are open-minded, sex is considered another pastime than showing of true emotions of love. Doing it without the sanctity of marriage or doing it without love is such wretched act. Showing how long one can last in bed, how many times you can make your mate deliver orgasm in one session, and what different positions both of you can perform. Now the length of time it takes to ejaculate is a major issue and delaying ejaculation is the norm.
Having to know that a lot are into this is kind of depressing because sexual act is supposed to be an art of love and reproduction. With this case, all attempts, actions and methods ended up with ejaculation that was supposed to be fertilization. Which raises the question, what is the importance of delaying ejaculation? Wasn’t the goal to ejaculate and reproduce? If that is so, wouldn’t we want to ejaculate more? So what is the purpose of delaying ejaculation?
But alas, people nowadays are giving more importance to the pleasures associated with sex. For the majority, the so-called reproductive organs are now pleasure organs. We are using these body parts more for experiencing pleasure than for procreation. But is this what these jw6zp9 organs are really made for? Giving importance to delaying ejaculation implies that the stimulation and erection stages are more important than ejaculation. It is not the getting “there” that matters, but how you get there. Now if you stop and think about it, is this how it should be?
I guess we should take things as it is and for its value. We should take what we have and use it for its specific purpose. Since its purpose is for us to procreate, then by all means, we should create. Whatever and however we use it for, it will ultimately still be for its most important primary purpose, to reproduce. Anything else and other feelings associated with it are relatively secondary.
With that in mind, delaying ejaculation will be easier especially if both parties involved prefer it. Since both of you are not focusing in performing the act, there is less pressure. They will simply be doing things to make their partner happy, to make the reproductive act meaningful, and to show their true love and affection for one another. It is a different scenario altogether. There still is the technique of delaying ejaculation but now, you are doing it to please your partner. The goal changed into making love and reproduce.
This approach to making love may be incomprehensible to many. After all, for most people sex is just a mind and body ritual the main purpose of which is to experience pleasure. But if your objective is to make real love, then it is not just the mind and boy which will be at work, because the heart will play a role as well. It may even play a more major role.
So, is there really a necessity in delaying ejaculation? I guess. If it means having a meaningful fruitful love making that will eventually lead to procreation, then by all means… let us do so!
